Ah, February! The month that holds a special place in my heart, not just because it’s often associated with love and romance, it’s the month I was born—on the 13th to be exact! As we navigate through these chilly days (oh yes, I traded the sunshine state for the lovers’ state), I can’t help but feel that February is a fascinating tapestry woven with warmth, reflection, and celebration.
Yes, it can be tempting to groan at the seemingly endless winter gloom, as we shiver through our layers and daydream about spring. But let’s be real—there’s something uniquely beautiful about this month. It unfolds like a cozy blanket, offering us amazing opportunities to embrace the little joys. Perhaps it’s the scent of cinnamon wafting through the air, or the alluring promise of hot cocoa or ginger tea after a brisk walk outside. These are the moments which remind me that amidst the cold, there’s magic waiting to be discovered.
One of the most enchanting aspects of February is Valentine’s Day. Even if we don’t have a significant other, this holiday encourages us to celebrate all forms of love—friendships, family bonds, and yes, even self-love. So, in honor of my ‘name day’ month and all the joy it brings, I’m happy to share my list of 7 activities I really enjoy and believe make February not just my favorite month but also a time for celebration and beautiful connection.
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1. Arrange a Brunch Date. Why not start the month with a bang? Gather your closest pals (girls and guys) for a delightful brunch at a favorite café or restaurant. I find this to be the perfect way to cherish the incredible friendships that enrich our lives.
2. Go on a local discovery. If you love coffee, take a tour of cozy coffee spots in your area and try their specialties. I love this so much! Not only is it my ‘me-time’, it’s also like like a treasure hunt for my taste buds!
3. Surprise strangers or friends with small acts of kindness. Did you know February 17th is National Random Acts of Kindness Day? Brighten a friend’s day by sending them a bouquet or sweet treats. Compliment a stranger or buy coffee for the person in line behind you. What better way to spread love and joy? I recently found out secretly paying for older couples’ dinners is my fiancé’s favorite thing to do. Isn’t he the kindest?
4. Write a feel-good letter to yourself. Insert yourself in the love celebrations by writing a letter (to yourself) detailing all the great things you’re proud of, what you cherish most, and why you love yourself. Don’t forget to frame it and keep it in a special place. It’ll come in handy in the future when you need a boost of confident.
5. Treat yourself to something new. A new lipgloss, a new scent, a new book, or trying a new restaurant—get yourself something that makes you smile on the inside. It’s all about self-care!
6. Honor Black History.
Besides being the month of love, February is also Black History Month. Being born and raised in Haiti, the first black nation to abolish slavery, I’m all about Black achievements. That’s why I make it a point to learn something new about the Black community and our contributions to the world, especially during Black History Month. There’s no better month than the month of February to double down on supporting Black-owned businesses, reading books by Black authors, and taking time to appreciate the rich heritage that shapes our culture. Best feeling ever!
7. Celebrate Valentine’s Day your way. I’m not a big V-Day fanatic, but I do appreciate what it represents. So whether you do it with a partner, alone, or with friends, make it count. Create your own traditions and enjoy the day in whatever way feels best for you.
And there you have it! …my list of 7 amazing things I love to do in my birthday month.
February is a month filled with opportunities to celebrate love, friendship, and creativity. Whether you choose to engage in one or all of these activities, I hope you take the time to really enjoy what this month [MY month] has to offer!
Happy early birthday to me! …and here’s to making every moment count this February!
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